The Sex Doctor: He's Asked Me to Tie Him Up.. But Should I?

Sunday Mirror › October 17, 2004

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I HAVE been dating this boy for a while and we have a good time together. Last weekend we had sex for the first time but I got a real shock when he asked me to tie him up as it was a big turn-on for him. I did as he asked but it rather put me off the whole thing. I really like him but this thing has made me wonder.

I'M not surprised you were left feeling uneasy. It's an odd thing to ask the first time you have sex. I'm not saying restraining your partner during sex is unusual - bondage is a common fetish. Half the UK adults in a recent sex survey say handcuffs and tying up are part of their bedroom repertoire.